I want my girls to chime in here. As I see a growing trend on Reddit that men need to be rich to have a girlfriend.
I want to point out that if you are disgustingly wealthy (top few %) then you can probably get your pick of the girls. But let’s be real, that’s really not most of the dudes here and most of those men aren’t going to be complaining on subreddits because they’re so rich they’re out living their life off the internet. They’re busy babe banging. Good for them.
For most of us, we’re just regular people who have decent jobs.
The truth is the best way to find a partner is to take care of yourself.
This means BASIC skincare routine. Men, you gotta moisturise and put sunscreen on. If you’re getting older get some retinol in there.
Style your hair in a way that suits you. Spend the extra money to go talk to a proper hair stylist to see if what you have going is the best for your face. This goes for beards too. Get them maintained by a professional. And your eyebrows. Men, get your eyebrows done!!!!
Wear clothes that fit you. Do not wear graphic tees if you want to date a girl who dresses up. Graphic tees are casual. Learn your colour, they have people who help you know your colours. Dress correctly for your body type (though ultimately please wear what you like!!!).
Smell good and have clean teeth and nails.
Exercise. Exercise. Exercise. It releases endorphins that make you happier to be around.
Really ask yourself am I actually doing all these things? If I am looking for a woman who has nice skin, nice face, fit body, nice nails, tidy hair, well dressed etc make sure you are bringing all of that to the table too.
We live in the swiping culture of dating, how you look is the most important. If you aren’t having success, take a six month break and commit to focusing on yourself. The other thing that will happen is you’ll be happier and healthier, which will cause women to approach you. You’ll likely also get to join a gym or a club or something which is a great place to meet women!
Women are attracted to men who are bettering themselves. Dedicate some of your cash to self care and grooming and see how much dating improves.
